This recovery thing, though slow process
has been working out to my benefit....
Hubby is surprised at the amount of work
I usually do around here.
He is pitching in and helping.
He vacummed yesterday on his day off.
I had to go outside as it killed me to watch him.
I caught myself about to say something, and decided go outside,
let him be, appreciate his help, and bite my tongue.
I tend to be more thorough, he was wizzing through the house as
if there were a prize at the other end to get it finished as fast as he could..
He had worked up a sweat and then said, Oh that was hard.
I wanted to say Look after 13 years if you don't know it is hard work,
then your not doing it enough. Anyway this is good for me to give up some
of the control I have in the house.....I am learning it is not as important
as I make it out to be. ....I really do appreciate any help I can get.
Both of us remind the other that we really knew how to get dressed all by
ourselves before we came into the others life.
Today I am having friends come over so that will be a nice change for me.
I hope you have a great day, are there things your partner does
that drive you crazy or do you find them endearing and one
of the reasons you love them.
Have a great day.
until next time,